I believe that anything that is theoretically possible is possible, but will any of it happen, well… that is up to each and everyone of us. There is a drive embedded deep inside every human being. A drive for more, for everything that we want. And while not fulfilled or not working for what we want, we get anxious or depressed. This is due to our understanding that this is the first and the last chance at life for each and every one of us, our body is trying to help us by showing that there is something wrong, something missing, and that we need to change our circumstances. Relationships, health, self-actualization. In my opinion those are the most important needs that need to be satisfied for the overall happiness of a person.
No one knows how to live life. There are no rules, except for ones that we have made for our selves as society and even those are optional, you just have to understand that there are consequences for every action or as Newton put it “For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction”. We try to make life as fair as possible even though life is not fair and it never will be, nor does it have to be, but we still try to make it as such. That is one of the reasons why I fell in love with human animal again. After being disappointed by and not understanding it, I have found beauty and reason for us being the way we are.
“Life is simple but not easy.” Life is hard. Mostly emotionally hard and most of the pain is caused not by life itself but by us and our perception of it. I can compare it to winning a lottery, as you know most of the winners end up spending the money and afterwards feeling even worse than prior to winning. Is life much different? Just because we were born we have won the biggest lottery in the universe, the odds were unimaginable, but we won. I think deep down everyone understands how lucky we are, and that is where the pain comes from. Like the lottery winner that is slowly losing all his winnings and life going down the drain, we feel the pressure the time and our lives slowly slipping away. Why? I can only guess. Social conditioning, guilt, shame, feeling unworthy, basically just mental pain. For some so unbearable that they end it prematurely. If we could be happy with less, and we can, but most still want more, we could live happy, harmonious lives. But it is a necessary mechanism for us to survive and thrive. I believe that nature and natural selection always crates and goes the optimal rout for the species survival. Our capability of beauty, greatness, happiness, pleasure, comes with a price, and that price are all the opposites, you can’t have good without the bad. For you to be able to feel pleasure you have to be able to feel pain.