The life you live is yours and only yours, but the world we share. Life is a game, and it is a game that we all play together not against each other (sometimes we choose to do so), but together, sometimes individually, but there are no default opponents maybe only you yourself. Sure you can choose to engage in competition against others, but it still isn’t against others, it is fighting for something it just happens to be attainable by being better than others at that particular game.
In sports we compete against others. Is that so? Until the competition, you everyday you go to war against yourself and when you finally compete with others it shows who won more battles against them selves. What about the coaches and teammates? There is a saying “You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make them drink”. No matter what others do, everything that happens to you is on you. Coaches, teammates, family and others do help, but it is you who has to do the work. Why don’t the best coaches or teachers produce the bulk of successful people? They will have a higher percentage but only 1 out of 100 or more of his students will actually be a champion, and usually the teacher doesn’t pick the pupil, you find the teacher and then he might chose to work with you.
The society is built to help people survive, it will not let you die but it will not give you more than you need to survive. But it is also built so that people who want more are able to get more. If you want more than just to survive, guess what, you have to do something. We all want more and many prey on this basic human want. Online gurus selling courses, motivational speakers, politicians, your neighbor with 3 cars. People make money of others dreams, by selling you the dream of being a millionaire in Dubai they become millionaires in Dubai. By saying it’s somebody else fault that you are not a millionaire in Dubai they get your support. They just have to say some basic catch phrases couple beautifully put together sentences, promise of change and you are sucking on that titty like a 1 year old. Just couple more videos and I’ll know the truth, I’ll know how to be rich, 3 years in and they are still telling you “This is the secret to make millions”, “How they keep you poor”, “Escape the matrix with these 5 steps”. Same stuff over and over and over, repackaged, change “government keeps you poor” to “Jeff Bezos and Bill Gates keeps you poor”, “5 things they don’t want you to know”.
If they didn’t want me to know I wouldn’t know, but I already did, before this video, and guess what knowing those things still don’t change a thing now you are broke 30 year old living in your parents basement that knows those things. Yay. Good for you.
If I knew what to do I wouldn’t be here writing this. Or maybe I do know. Get out there, and find what is true and what isn’t, what works and what doesn’t. There are no rules to life no secret formula, there are some basic logic things like, you want to lose weight, eat less train more, want to get something done, do it, not watch 50 videos on how to do it, but do it. It is better to know how close you can put your finger to fire and be fine rather than theorizing about it and never actually trying it.
I know this won’t help you, but I still hope it does. Even more I hope it helps me. Think about yourself, do what is best for you, most of the time that is what is the best for everyone.